Capturing Emotion: Tips for Authentic Wedding and Engagement Photos

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Your wedding and engagement photos are more than just images—they’re memories frozen in time, telling the story of your unique love journey. At Schexnayder & James Wedding Photography, we believe authenticity is the key to creating photos that truly resonate. Here are some of our top tips to ensure your photos feel genuine, natural, and full of emotion.

1. Be Yourselves

The best photos come when you’re relaxed and being simply you. Try not to overthink poses or what the camera “wants.” Instead, think about the moments and emotions you share with your partner. Smile, laugh, hold hands, whisper something funny—let those small authentic moments guide the shoot.

2. Choose Meaningful Locations

Pick places that have significance in your relationship, whether it’s where you first met, had your first date, or just your favorite hangout spot. Familiar surroundings put you at ease and add a layer of personal storytelling to the images.

3. Prioritize Comfort Over Perfection

Skip uncomfortable shoes or outfits that make you self-conscious. Wear what feels natural and lets you move freely. When you’re physically at ease, your expressions and body language reflect true comfort and happiness.

4. Let the Day Unfold Naturally

For wedding photography, allow moments to unfold without forcing too many staged shots. Some of the most heartfelt images come from candid interactions, like the gentle touch of a nervous hand or a shared glance between family members.

5. Communicate Your Vision

Talk openly with your photographer ahead of time about what matters to you. Whether it’s focusing on laughter, quiet moments, or specific family dynamics, clear communication helps your photographer capture your wedding or engagement in the way that feels most authentic to you.

6. Use Movement to Your Advantage

Walking hand-in-hand, twirling, or even a gentle embrace while looking away from the camera can bring life and energy to your photos. Movement encourages real emotions and natural body language to shine through.

7. Don’t Fear Showing Emotions

Tears, laughter, nervousness—they all tell your story. Embrace whatever feelings come up during your session. Genuine emotion is beautiful and timeless.

8. Trust Your Photographer

Choose a photographer who makes you feel comfortable, listens carefully, and understands your style. When there’s trust, you can let go and be fully in the moment.

Your wedding and engagement photos should feel like you—not posed or forced. By embracing authenticity, your images will become cherished treasures that beautifully tell the story of your love.

Schexnayder & James Wedding Photography
San Antonio’s husband-and-wife photography team capturing your wedding journey with heart and creativity.

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Kami Schexnayder

On Location San Antonio Portrait Photographer Specializing in Senior, Family, and Professional Portraits.

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